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Oh dear have been doing this all day. Haha !!! Filling things in.!!

I would love someone out there to make Me feel weak at the knees again and make My stomach hurt from making Me laugh so much it hurts. I cared for My late husband at home where he sadly passed away. Nearly 6 years next month. I would really love to make some new friends and memories. Hence I felt I would come on here. I am quite a chatterbox as this is my personality but I used to have to chat in my past life at work. But my other points are that I listen and take and interest. There are so many people out there today that just need a "Hello". I am a Scot, patient but if I am pushed too far I will become a fiery red-headed Celt/Viking. I am used to the male company as I have grown up with Brothers and sons, plus at work. I am told I am kind and friendly. Which I believe I am and try to be.? Generous sometimes to the wrong people, who thought I could trust and so this has made me very cautious. I love to read, especially history and I feel the more we know the better for some things and it gets your imagination working as well. I love dogs am scared of Cats, chickens and insects. So I need a man to help guard me. Haha, My dog Lenny is my soul mate so must have a like-minded guy that loved his dogs. I try and dress for the occasion as I feel it makes you feel good if dressed appropriately. But I do not mean in Designer, no need. Not to say that they are not stunning but I am a Scot after all and You know what they say.!! Haha..

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My Christian Preferences

Which Church were you raised in?Christian Reformed
How often do you attend church?Holidays or Special Occassions
What's the name of the church or ministry which you attend?I don't have one.

My Dog(s)

What is your dog's name?Lenny
What breed is your dog?Daschund x Rodhesian Ridgeback
How old is your dog?nearly 7yrs old
What gender is your dog?Male
Does your dog live indoors or outdoors?Indoors
Do you have other pets beside dog?No
Do you have more than one dog?No
Do you take your dog with you when you go on vacation?No
Your dog's favorite toyNone as you should change them often but usually ones with treats inside. or his ball out in the garden or park etc.
Does your dog wear a muzzle?No
Is it necessary that your partner also have a dog?No
Where did you get your dog from?Animal Shelter


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageScottish
Eye ColorGreen
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Have PetsDog
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyHospitality / Travel
Employment StatusRetired
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleAt home

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies, Re-runs
Favorite TV showsAt this point in time"Taboo. Vikings, Last Kingdom, Peaky Blinders, and GOT. British Comedies and Dramas. An old series would be Band of Brothers. otherwise too many to mention. The Office. Both.
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Drama, Family, Animation, Thriller
Favorite moviesAgain this is the same films I have seen so many . Some like it Hot. Saving Private Ryan. And Especially dear and means a lot is the Notebook" Gladiator and 300" Most of all the Marvel heroes. Period dramas. ......!
Music typesRap, Pop, Classical, Blues, Latin, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk
Favorite artistsI love from 30's Blues to 40's ,50's swing . The Crooners. My go to is Soul/funk and 70's 80's disco . Ska. I am listening to The Teskey Brothers at the moment. James Brown Ray Charles.....!
Reading selectionAuto-biography, Classic, Comic, Fiction, History, Humor, Mystery, Satire
Favorite booksAt the moment I am reading the last book in a series of Murder mysteries set in Tudor times in Henry V111 time. I have read since young so too many to say. ?!!!
Idea of funTaking my dog Len to the beach/river/lake and then having a coffee and cake. Going to the outdoor cinemas when warm enough with a picnic or concerts. Doing this with friends having lunch. Or a barbecue swimming.Playing board games and cards. Antique fairs/ artisan food markets. Going to Italy to see the Palio Horse race in Sienna. Going to see my family in Uk or Scotland to watch The Common Ridings. Go on the Orient Express or the Equivalent on West Coast of Scotland. Cruise or train. Just sitting watching TvVor reading beside someone. Going to a live Rugby Union match. Or a pop up charcoal sketch party. For me. Be spontaneous. Go and see a stand up comedian or with friends Karaoke . So I can laugh at them and my awful singing or find the latest Pop Idol.??
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Playing cards, Shopping


SmokerDon't smoke
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Average Joe
My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryTo learn to play the piano. Especially like Jools Holland and play Boogie Woogie/ Jive/rock n roll. Big band Ska etc.


Political viewsConservative
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo be a kind person and listen and meet someone who feels the same and I want to share my time that is left with them enjoying the simple things in life. Have done that mostly all my time so far. But have lost the person I thought I would be doing it with. My soulmate since I was 8 years old he was 9. Make the other person laugh as I want to so it hurts in their stomach and make happy memories for them whilst they are here. Cannot take anything with Us except that they knew we loved them. Family, friends and that Special loved one.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerFirst of all, I see their eyes and then their smile. I look for a twinkle and a cheeky grin. I love a cheeky guy but not arrogant. Who has empathy and is kind. Most of all I must feel Trust. Loves dogs and other animals. Will listen and stop and help people, generous not just with help but in their outlook. Nothing phases them. Likes to dress nicely for himself and for me. Not over the top designer but just wear things to feel good in themselves. Makes a huge difference. No long hair anymore. I love a mustache and a trimmed beard or stubble. If follicle challenged .? Bald is sexy, no whispy bits guys. Whip it all off. Who would feel he would like to make me laugh so much again that I fall off the sofa. Get on with if poss my family and friends and most of all Lenny.x
On the first dateIf I had been back in Scotland gone up onto the hills above the town and sat there gazing at the stunning views. meaning The guy as well.With a hot /cold drink. Something to eat. Or here by the river/ocean watching the sun go down and having a glorious meal. Or just as happy to go for a coffee and a walk with Lenny and stop for cake. Fairly simple.